To get married and have children is but the most ideal thing a woman wants, or what people around her want. It may even be deemed as the "normal" path any woman would take. When women refuse to like the idea of getting married and having children, it would be like a constant bloodbath of insensitive why's.

I think I was a college sophomore when I started to entertain the idea that I never want to get married and have kids. It was only perfunctory for me to think that I must only be undergoing a certain life crisis. But as I grew, I found myself more and more accepting of the idea. My stand on it was getting firmer by the years. And now as I write this, I am quite certain. I do not want to get married. I would sadly miss the possibility of me having children because I don't want them either.

Of course, to you now I may sound selfish. But see, arrogant as I might seem, my reasons are quite selfless. I would spare myself of all the pain of a cheating husband would cause and also most importantly, I'd not have any children whom I would indirectly inflict pain upon.

I have completely lost faith in men. How can someone like me not, when all my life I was a witness of a marriage that is swimming in a pool of infidelity?

But seriously, I'm not bitter or anything. This is me being tough.

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